Can you tolerate the truth of not knowing?

“Your Daily Dose” is a quick two minute read packed with bite-sized wisdom from all the great teachers. But you could also choose to turn it into something more… a powerful daily practice for personal growth. Give it a try!

A message from today’s meditation:

For survival, the human mind craves certainty. We strive to understand, categorize, and control. Our minds, desperately scratching through all of the noisiness in the world for a shred of certainty, is often the biggest source of our anxiety. Because life, in all its beautiful complexity, often presents us with the unsettling truth of not knowing. Can you tolerate this truth?

“It only takes a few minutes of meditation to directly realize we are a river of sensations, feelings, thoughts, perceptions. How can we navigate this evanescent river of life wisely? With mindful awareness and love it becomes clear. You can fight against the river of change, or use its wisdom to teach you how to graciously move and create and flow with the full measure of joy and sorrow, gain and loss, praise and blame that make up every human incarnation.” – Jack Kornfield 

How do we navigate all of this wisely? Our outer world is a constant barrage of noise, and as the quote above mentions, our inner world is mostly really noisy too. Where do we find the wisdom to graciously move and create and flow through this human experience?

“Built on the foundation of concentration, is the third aspect of the path of awakening: it is clarity of vision and the development of wisdom.” – Jack Kornfield

“The development of wisdom” – where is it that we find this wisdom? 

We are, each of us, connected to source, what flows through me flows equally through you. If God is to be found in any place, then you will have to explore your own connection to that place and that can only be found within you. Your own eternal soul.

Is it necessary that we have complete knowledge in order to access wisdom? Is it necessary that every time we ask we get a clear answer? No. Real wisdom understands the very real human condition, and perhaps the biggest gift that wisdom gives us… is how to deal with the reality of not knowing:

“The wise heart is not one that understands everything, it is the heart that can tolerate the truth of not knowing.” – Jack Kornfield

In summary the message from Jack Kornfield today is:

The river of life is filled with sensations, feelings, thoughts, perceptions – joy and sorrow, gain and loss, praise and blame that make up every human incarnation, and we only navigate it well when we develop wisdom. And that the foundation of wisdom lies in coming to terms with the truth that there is SO much that we will never know…can you tolerate the truth of not knowing? 

Today’s meditation is a journey towards your own inner wisdom. An opportunity to become quiet enough to hear your soul speak.

Join us on this journey of inner exploration. Here are some mantras to guide your reflection:

  • “I am a river of experience. I can choose to fight the current or learn to navigate it with grace.”
  • “Wisdom lies within. I can access this wisdom through introspection and self-compassion.”
  • “The truth of not knowing is liberating. It allows me to be present and open to the unfolding of life.”
  • “I trust the process. Even in uncertainty, there is growth and learning.”

The wise heart isn’t one that possesses absolute knowledge, but rather one that can embrace the mystery. It accepts that there will always be questions without definitive answers. This acceptance allows us to flow with the river of life, experiencing both its joys and sorrows with equanimity.

– pierre –

Today’s LIVE meditation is: The serenity prayer.

Today’s LIVE meditation

https://youtu.be/mZqysFca7pM 2025

https://youtu.be/qTPL_4GUCqs 2024

https://youtu.be/YYJ48kZYhlw 2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtBwhZxVVj4 2020

Practice the “Daily Dose”

Let’s put it into practice! Choose what works for you – daily, once a week or whenever inspiration strikes. Putting pen to paper wires the neural pathways that will create your new habits.

1 – Affirmation

Write down your favourite affirmation on a sticky note and place it somewhere that you’ll be able to see it the whole day.

  • “I am a river of experience. I can choose to fight the current or learn to navigate it with grace.”
  • “Wisdom lies within. I can access this wisdom through introspection and self-compassion.”
  • “The truth of not knowing is liberating. It allows me to be present and open to the unfolding of life.”
  • “I trust the process. Even in uncertainty, there is growth and learning.”

2 – A moment of reflection

Use today’s question as a journal prompt. If you don’t have the time to sit down and write, just take a moment to reflect on your response.

Grace in Both Directions: Kornfield mentions that human life includes both “joy and sorrow, gain and loss, praise and blame.” Reflect on your own experiences with each pair: joy and also sorrow, gain and also loss, praise and also blame. Have you been able to hold space for both sides to exist? Can you practice holding both with equal grace and acceptance?

3 – Quotes to share

Send a quote to someone who needs it, or share them all on social media to spread the good vibes!

4 – Q&A for deeper learning

Read through the questions and answers and write down at least one “aha moment” that clicked for you.

Q1: What does it mean to “tolerate the truth of not knowing”?

A: Tolerating the truth of not knowing means developing the capacity to sit comfortably with uncertainty and unanswered questions. Instead of anxiously seeking definitive answers or trying to control every outcome, it means accepting that life naturally contains ambiguity and mystery. This tolerance allows us to remain present and open rather than paralyzed by the need for certainty.

Q2: How is wisdom different from knowledge?

A: Knowledge is the accumulation of information and facts, while wisdom is the ability to navigate life skillfully regardless of how much we know. Wisdom involves understanding when we don’t have answers and being okay with that. As the article explains, “The wise heart is not one that understands everything, it is the heart that can tolerate the truth of not knowing.” You can have extensive knowledge yet lack wisdom, or possess deep wisdom with limited knowledge.

Q3: Why does our need for certainty create anxiety?

A: Our minds evolved to seek certainty for survival purposes—knowing where danger lurked or where food could be found kept our ancestors alive. However, in our complex modern world, this same mechanism becomes counterproductive. We desperately search for absolute answers in situations that are inherently uncertain, creating a constant state of mental agitation. Life’s beautiful complexity often defies our need for clear-cut answers, and fighting this reality generates anxiety.

Q4: What does the “river of life” metaphor represent?

A: The river represents the constantly flowing, ever-changing nature of human experience—our sensations, feelings, thoughts, and perceptions that arise and pass away. Just as a river never stops moving, our lives continuously unfold with new experiences including joy and sorrow, gain and loss, praise and blame. We can either fight against this current (causing suffering) or learn to flow with it gracefully, accepting change as life’s natural state.

Q5: How do I access the inner wisdom mentioned in the article?

A: Inner wisdom is accessed through quieting the external and internal noise through practices like meditation and introspection. The article suggests that wisdom requires becoming “quiet enough to hear your soul speak.” This involves creating space for stillness, developing concentration, and turning inward to connect with your deeper self—what the article calls your “eternal soul” or connection to source. Regular meditation practice is one pathway to accessing this inner knowing.

Q6: Can I develop wisdom even if I don’t have a religious or spiritual belief system?

A: Absolutely. While the article uses spiritual language like “soul” and “source,” the core teaching about tolerating uncertainty and flowing with life’s changes is universal. You can interpret “inner wisdom” as your intuition, your deeper consciousness, or simply a more mindful and aware way of being. The practice of meditation and self-reflection works regardless of your belief system—it’s about cultivating presence and acceptance rather than adhering to any particular doctrine.

Q7: What practical steps can I take to develop a “wise heart”?

A: Start with small practices: (1) Begin a meditation practice, even just 5-10 minutes daily, to become familiar with the flow of your inner experience. (2) Notice when you’re demanding certainty and practice asking yourself, “Can I be okay not knowing right now?” (3) Use the affirmations provided for daily reflection. (4) Journal about times when things worked out despite your uncertainty. (5) Practice mindful awareness throughout your day, noticing sensations, thoughts, and feelings without needing to fix or change them. Remember that developing wisdom is a process, not a destination.